Explore your sexuality, find your people, be a part of a community.
Become a Hacienda Member today.
How to Apply
Include a reference of a member who will vouch for you.
We will review your application and contact your reference.
Once accepted, we will send you an email with a link to enter your credit card details. You will be billed $25 every 90 days.
Once paid you will gain immediate access to private event tickets.
Many of the public events offer a discount to members.
Your email address will be added to the members list and you will receive a weekly email newsletter detailing all of the private and public events.
What our community has to say
Here's what our members love about Hacienda events.
Frequently asked questions
How do I become a member?
What if I don’t have anyone to vouch for me?
What can I expect at a Hacienda play party?
How should I act?
Communication is the most important thing to keep in mind. As long as you communicate your requests and boundaries you should feel free to be yourself. We work to create a space where guests are encouraged to explore their sexuality and self-expression, therefore we expect everyone to be kind and treat each other with respect. You may be near people or things that don’t turn you on but don’t ever shame someone or be rude. Be aware of your alcohol consumption and make sure you remain in a position to give and get consent.
What is the crowd like?
As a sex-positive community we never discriminate based on age, body type, gender or gender expression, sexual preference, race, physical ability, or relationship structure. We do not take any measures to control the physical attributes of our crowd, and find that gender ratios are almost always balanced.
Do I need to come with someone?
If you are a member you may come alone, unless the event specifically states otherwise. If you are a guest of a member then you should come with that member.
Do I have to pay for membership and events?
The membership fee is separate from the cost of individual event tickets. Each event ticket is for 1 person (unless otherwise stated) and usually costs between $45-$85. We have volunteer positions available in exchange for free tickets (check event description for volunteer contact information or email email@example.com).
Will my privacy be protected?
We respect the privacy of our members and will never sell or distribute your name, contact info or other personal information to any other organization.
How can I recommend Hacienda to my friends?
Further Membership Details
Can be found here: https://www.wearehacienda.com/membership-details
Not ready for full membership yet?
Maybe you're not ready to become a full member! We understand.
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