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Upcoming Events

Wax Play 101
Thursday, October 22nd / 8PM
Wax play is a type of sensation play that explores the body's reaction to suspense, extreme heat, short bursts of stimulation, and sensory deprivation. This digital workshop, led by Turning Violet, will include information about specific tools, safety tips, and  explorative exercises for self or partnered wax play. Come with a partner or solo to explore the limits of your body.
Race & Sexuality: How to Celebrate and Not Fetishize
Tuesday, October 27th / 8PM

This discussion, hosted by Hacienda's Safi & FiFi, is a friendly chat about how to treat and approach folx that may look different than you at a sex party...or literally anywhere. Learn how to celebrate and uplift all bodies without making them feel even more “othered”. 

Sex Education

Learn to please your lovers in brand new ways with Kenneth's courses aimed at teaching men how to pleasure women. Opt for the Sex Hacker Pro bundle and get the love life you’ve always dreamed of.

Adult Entertainment

Tired of chauvinistic and tacky mainstream porn, Lust's films are characterized by carefully cast actors and high standards of production in adult film. Lust believes explicit film can be an educational tool besides being pleasurable and can help us better understand our sexuality, to live more freely and naturally. 

Toys & Fashion

Looking for the perfect gift for your new partner? We've curated the best products to take your play time to the next level — all tested and recommended by Hacienda sluts with years of experience.

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The Villa

Brooklyn's first sex-positive intentional community. The Villa is a home first, and we practice responsible hedonism, with the belief that we can indulge all our pleasures while being considerate of everyone’s needs and boundaries.

The Studio

Located below the Villa, the studio is a play area, classroom, or theatre depending upon the night. Connected to the Villa's backyard, there is access to the bar, hot tub, and fire pit.

The Lodge

Within close proximity to the other two locations, and with residents as friendly and fun as you would expect, the Lodge is our latest new location for sex-positive community living.

The Maison

A meticulously restored 4,500 square foot sex-positive guesthouse and retreat in New Orleans, Louisiana

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