A Different Kind of Family
Hacienda Lodge encourages freedom and self-expression.
We celebrate sex among consenting
adults in all its forms and expressions.
We provide a safe space for sexual empowerment and growth.
We refine our own connections in service of cultivating an inclusive tribe. We feel and offer a sense of belonging.
We are committed to diversity of age,
bodies, gender, gender expression and identity, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity,
We cultivate a generosity of spirit, assuming the good intent of those around us. We practice deliberate acts of kindness.
We dedicate ourselves to loving, authentic, and nonviolent dialogue. We aim to clearly communicate our boundaries and ask for
what we need.
We keep our word. If we cannot, we strive to rebuild trust by co-creating a win-win.
We take pride in the way we care for our houses and event spaces, creating not only a comfortable environment for ourselves, but also an inspiring space to share with others.
We encourage the full spectrum of sensual stimulation, while safeguarding our own health and considering the wellbeing of others.
We magnify each other’s creative, professional, relational, sexual and romantic growth, elevating each other towards our most honest self-expression.
We live by our principles outside of the home. We advocate for sex-positive culture and education in the world and collaborate with those who share our values.