Brooklyn's first Sex Positive Intentional Community

Welcome to Life at the Villa

The Villa has fourteen full-time members, fifteen bedrooms, thirteen bathrooms, three kitchensand is connected to the Hacienda Studio.
The Villa is a home first, and we practice responsible hedonism, with the belief that we can indulge all our pleasures while being considerate of everyone’s needs and boundaries.

Property Gallery

First Floor Kitchen

First Floor Kitchen

Backyard

Backyard

Hot Tub

Hot Tub

Gazebo Bar

Gazebo Bar

The Studio

The Studio

The Cuddle Puddle

The Cuddle Puddle

Third Floor

Third Floor

First Floor

First Floor

Second Floor

Second Floor

First Floor Bedroom

First Floor Bedroom

The Studio

The Studio

First Floor Bathroom

First Floor Bathroom

Second Floor Kitchen

Second Floor Kitchen

A Different Kind of Family

Hacienda Villa encourages freedom and self-expression.

Sex-Positivity

We celebrate sex among consenting
adults in all its forms and expressions.
We provide a safe space for sexual empowerment and growth.

 

Community

We refine our own connections in service of cultivating an inclusive tribe. We feel and offer a sense of belonging.

 

Inclusivity

We are committed to diversity of age,
bodies, gender, gender expression and identity, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity,
and profession.

 

Kindness

We cultivate a generosity of spirit, assuming the good intent of those around us. We practice deliberate acts of kindness.

 

Compassionate Communication

We dedicate ourselves to loving, authentic, and nonviolent dialogue. We aim to clearly communicate our boundaries and ask for
what we need.

Integrity

We keep our word. If we cannot, we strive to rebuild trust by co-creating a win-win.

 

Stewardship

We take pride in the way we care for our houses and event spaces, creating not only a comfortable environment for ourselves, but also an inspiring space to share with others.

 

Responsible Hedonism

We encourage the full spectrum of sensual stimulation, while safeguarding our own health and considering the wellbeing of others.

 

Self-Actualization

We magnify each other’s creative, professional, relational, sexual and romantic growth, elevating each other towards our most honest self-expression.

 

Social Responsibility

We live by our principles outside of the home. We advocate for sex-positive culture and education in the world and collaborate with those who share our values.

Interested in living an extraordinary life in the Villa?

Gazebo Bar