
Brooklyn's first Sex Positive Intentional Community
Welcome to Life at the Villa
The Villa has fourteen full-time members, fifteen bedrooms, thirteen bathrooms, three kitchensand is connected to the Hacienda Studio.
The Villa is a home first, and we practice responsible hedonism, with the belief that we can indulge all our pleasures while being considerate of everyone’s needs and boundaries.
A Different Kind of Family
Hacienda Villa encourages freedom and self-expression.





Sex-Positivity
We celebrate sex among consenting
adults in all its forms and expressions.
We provide a safe space for sexual empowerment and growth.
Community
We refine our own connections in service of cultivating an inclusive tribe. We feel and offer a sense of belonging.
Inclusivity
We are committed to diversity of age,
bodies, gender, gender expression and identity, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity,
and profession.
Kindness
We cultivate a generosity of spirit, assuming the good intent of those around us. We practice deliberate acts of kindness.
Compassionate Communication
We dedicate ourselves to loving, authentic, and nonviolent dialogue. We aim to clearly communicate our boundaries and ask for
what we need.





Integrity
We keep our word. If we cannot, we strive to rebuild trust by co-creating a win-win.
Stewardship
We take pride in the way we care for our houses and event spaces, creating not only a comfortable environment for ourselves, but also an inspiring space to share with others.
Responsible Hedonism
We encourage the full spectrum of sensual stimulation, while safeguarding our own health and considering the wellbeing of others.
Self-Actualization
We magnify each other’s creative, professional, relational, sexual and romantic growth, elevating each other towards our most honest self-expression.
Social Responsibility
We live by our principles outside of the home. We advocate for sex-positive culture and education in the world and collaborate with those who share our values.