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For those who are looking for something saucier we have a membership program that grants access to our incredible private play events. 

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Upcoming Events

Hacienda Hosts: The Twenties

January 25, 2020

It's a time of prosperity, revolution, and new ways of thinking! Become a member today to attend.

Rope Share

February 12, 2020

Find a study buddy, practice your rope skills, and get tied up at open rope nights. Our gathering includes informal skill sharing, light snacks, and plenty of time to practice tying or being tied.

How to Ask for What You Want... In Bed!

January 29, 2020

Want to ask for exactly what you want in bed - without shame or embarrassment? In this workshop we will learn how to improve our communication for deeper intimacy and connection.

Tantric Latihan - Surrender to Connect

February 05, 2020

Tantric Latihan is a dance and movement practice where we surrender to movements with our eyes covered.
Explore the void on your own or connect with other eager souls and bodies. Dive into the unknown. Surrender to connect.

Hacienda's Feast of the Five Senses

February 15, 2020

The evening begins with a five-course-five-senses culinary experience and flows into an evening of party and play. Apply for membership now to get access to this and all other Hacienda play parties.

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Toys & Apparel

Looking for the perfect holiday gift for your new partner? We've curated the best products to take your play time to the next level — all tested and recommended by Hacienda sluts with years of experience.

Sex Education

Learn to please your lovers in brand new ways with Kenneth's courses aimed at teaching men how to pleasure women. Opt for the Sex Hacker Pro bundle and get the love life you’ve always dreamed of.

Adult Entertainment

Tired of chauvinistic and tacky mainstream porn, Lust's films are characterized by carefully cast actors and high standards of production in adult film. Lust believes explicit film can be an educational tool besides being pleasurable and can help us better understand our sexuality, to live more freely and naturally. 

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The Villa

Brooklyn's first sex-positive intentional community. The Villa is a home first, and we practice responsible hedonism, with the belief that we can indulge all our pleasures while being considerate of everyone’s needs and boundaries.