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For those who are looking for something saucier we have a membership program that grants access to our incredible private play events. 

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Upcoming Events

Let's Get Handie

April 02, 2020

Didn’t expect cuffing season to turn into quarantine season? While you're hunkering down together, why not take the time to learn some special techniques to please your sweetie with mind-blowing hand jobs. You'll walk away with all the tools to make your boo squirm using just your hands. RSVP on Eventbrite to receive the livestream link.

Pole Pleasure Livestream

April 03, 2020

You finished Tiger King, so now what? If you're tired of watching Netflix, join our live stream Pole Pleasures performance featuring a variety of live dancers  skilled in the art of seduction. Hook up your computer to the TV for a full on strip club experience right in your living room!
Click the link below to RSVP on Facebook and/or click here to join the livestream at 7 on Friday.

Pet Her Kitty

April 07, 2020

Spending lots of quality time indoors with bae? Show her how much you appreciate her with a heavy petting session focused solely on her. This livestream demo is being led by Rene, who will share tantric techniques, sex hacks, and tips to teach you simple and juicy ways to touch your partner. RSVP on Eventbrite for the livestream link.

Cooking With Lucy

April 09, 2020

Follow along with Lucy as she shows you how to pimp out your pasta and make a homemade carbonara casserole. Raid your cupboards and gather ingredients to cook a delish dinner for a date night with your quarantine partner or yourself. Click the link below for the ingredient list and to RSVP on Facebook, or click here to join the livestream at 7 PM on April 9th.
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All current Hacienda events are hosted online and free/optional donation.


Toys & Fashion

Looking for the perfect holiday gift for your new partner? We've curated the best products to take your play time to the next level — all tested and recommended by Hacienda sluts with years of experience.

Sex Education

Learn to please your lovers in brand new ways with Kenneth's courses aimed at teaching men how to pleasure women. Opt for the Sex Hacker Pro bundle and get the love life you’ve always dreamed of.

Adult Entertainment

Tired of chauvinistic and tacky mainstream porn, Lust's films are characterized by carefully cast actors and high standards of production in adult film. Lust believes explicit film can be an educational tool besides being pleasurable and can help us better understand our sexuality, to live more freely and naturally. 

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Our Projects


The Villa

Brooklyn's first sex-positive intentional community. The Villa is a home first, and we practice responsible hedonism, with the belief that we can indulge all our pleasures while being considerate of everyone’s needs and boundaries.

The Studio

Located below the Villa, the studio is a play area, classroom, or theatre depending upon the night. Connected to the Villa's backyard, there is access to the bar, hot tub, and fire pit.