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Upcoming Events

Sex On Substances: Play, Drugs, & Alcohol
Thursday, March 4th / 8PM ET
There is far too little research about how psychoactive substances affect our brains, and vicariously, how they affect our sexual experiences when we engage in drug play. This workshop led by Violet will walk you through the basic understanding of how the human brain works when it comes to addiction, novelty seeking, and drug seeking behaviors.
Sweet Nasty: The Art of Dirty Talk
Thursday, March 11th / 8PM ET
In this workshop, sex educator Niki Davis Fainbloom, aka Ms. Bloom, will instruct us in the art of dirty talk. Whether you're on the phone, on video chat, or in person, dirty talk is a safe and sexy way to bring your sexual encounters to the next level! We will explore sexy talk that can stimulate a partner before a sexual encounter, enhance stimulation during an encounter, and can make an encounter more memorable.
Open Relationship Course
Which type of relationship you thrive or struggle in depends on your personality. Discover your unique self with the Open Smarter Method™, a new, revolutionary science-based approach to optimizing your love life. 

Sex Education

Learn to please your lovers in brand new ways with Kenneth's courses aimed at teaching men how to pleasure women. Opt for the Sex Hacker Pro bundle and get the love life you’ve always dreamed of.

Adult Entertainment

Tired of chauvinistic and tacky mainstream porn, Lust's films are characterized by carefully cast actors and high standards of production in adult film. Lust believes explicit film can be an educational tool besides being pleasurable and can help us better understand our sexuality, to live more freely and naturally. 

Toys & Fashion

Looking for the perfect gift for your new partner? We've curated the best products to take your play time to the next level — all tested and recommended by Hacienda sluts with years of experience.

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Our Projects

The Villa

Brooklyn's first sex-positive intentional community. The Villa is a home first, and we practice responsible hedonism, with the belief that we can indulge all our pleasures while being considerate of everyone’s needs and boundaries.

The Studio

Located below the Villa, the studio is a play area, classroom, or theatre depending upon the night. Connected to the Villa's backyard, there is access to the bar, hot tub, and fire pit.

The Lodge

Within close proximity to the other two locations, and with residents as friendly and fun as you would expect, the Lodge is our latest new location for sex-positive community living.

The Maison

A meticulously restored 4,500 square foot sex-positive guesthouse and retreat in New Orleans, Louisiana

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